Two weeks ago I was really angry.. I don’t remember being so so angry for a long long time.. The situation was, in retrospect, simple. Yet, things spiraled into a curdled mess.. Long story short.. It happened in julia Gabriel, the place I bring babies for classes twice a week..
Apparently, rumor has it that my helper has been saying some stuff which are to me, unbelievable . Stuff that are quite superficial and not very in-depth, like, for example- a particular event. Anyway, none was run by me, and god alone knows how often my family has been the coffee talk amongst my “friends” open and close inverted commas because I believe if any of these people were my friends they would have shouted or if not less, spoken firmly that there’s NO reason any of that rumor is true..
Which brings me to my point.. Who says ” do upon others what u want others to do unto u..” cos as much as I’ve tried resonating with this sentence, time and time again, life has proven me wrong.. In this simple example, what I’d have done would be to tell my helper to quit talking and gossiping about another family’s matter.. But if she persists and cautioned that it could be true or what not, the next thing I’d have done would be to approach my friend, or fellow Julia Gabriel- school goer, and tell her what my helper has been saying.. INSTEAD of chit chatting about it .. Wondering WHO’s telling the truth and what not.. Its none of my business to begin with right?! First things first, question- if I do not care about this person, ethically, what’s right would be to not start a chat on whether any of it could be true. I’d just probably listen and not add. I mean what’s the purpose of the chat? Stoop down to the level of a helper?
Why make something so simple so so complicated? Sometimes I wonder why do I keep meeting people like these. This lady, D, is the typical people I detest.. High and mighty, holier than thou, nose up in the air and is never wrong. The irony of this situation was, I knew at first meeting, that I might not get along with her. You know? I digress a little. But I’m wondering why.. Why would anyone not handle this situation the way I would.
You know although I don’t give a damn about this stupid turd lady-D, I’m only human to wonder is it not obvious? I mean on the day we “fell out” I was just for crying out loud asking her about flour!! Miss High and mighty went on to talk about baking my own bread like what?? This is what I mean, if I, for eg, f- ing bake my own bread I won’t, tell others YOU SHOULD too. Anyway, it spiraled from there.. And i was accused of talking about her helper’s workload and etc .. Well, she mentioned, either me, or my helper. Like huh? Like throwing a dagger right at my back, how to bloody hell escape? Nuts. As I did call her that day.. I still think she’s loony.. A loony trouble causer. Also, who’s so free to chit chat about your stupid husehold?! Aiyoh, women..
I was taught at a young age to NOT point fingers at others, accusingly, I mean. Cos 4 other fingers would be pointing back at you. In this case, what transpired all these rumors? Well, of course it could be true my helper isn’t an angel herself and she’s the start of it all, just wanna gossip? She wants attention? Perhaps she hates me? I dunno.. OR, miss high and mighty’s helper could be playing punk and just adding stuff. I know integrity wise, my helper has never ever said a single bad thing about anyone, that alone I know is true.
How I see it would be- d’s turd helper is the one talking about all these, shouldnt she be doing her chores, or helping out with baby? So free to chat about these things? Why are you even talking about these? I mean, I believe theres probably no smoke without fire, it could have been from my camp or maybe it’s all a one or two man staged crazy show on d’s camp? Example, she’s talking to everyone (other helpers) and complaining about her workload, then worried turd faced d hears them, so she twist and blames the poor woman with twins who’s just enjoying classes with her babies.. Totally unsuspecting, and really back full of knives.
Oh well, I could go on. We live in a crazy world and much as I try to steer clear of loonies like turd faced d, I still meet them.. Too many, really.
So, next time, I go for classes, nursery, kindergarden, p sch n etc. Steer clear of crazy moms… Don’t blame me if I keep absolutely silent.
God bless these crazy women, both turd faced d and her helper with a dozen mouths. Lol
Hugs,
Mrs chew ( who ISN’T alive for you to stab ok.. F off! )
P.s do check your Facebook security settings pls..
